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This is a Survival Guide, Not an Obituary

Updated: Jan 25

Brené Brown wrote that "One day, you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else's survival guide." This is that survival guide. Please pass it on to anyone who you think may need it...


Brené Brown wrote "One day, you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else's survival guide."


I set out to write my article series (now almost 300 articles), not as an obituary of my life, but rather as a survival guide. When your life feels like a cataclysmic crash, you feel that the only option is suicide, as you can't think of any other way forward and you don't know what steps to take next. I know that it must feel like you are walking through the fire.






It is up to you whether from now on you seek a grievance or a miracle.


What will your healing journey look like? I have set it out here. I have described how you will navigate through your inevitable 'Dark Night of the Soul.' I have set out the solution to your problems and how to regain control of your life. There is an art to falling apart, and it may lead to the second half of your life, in which you 'fall upwards.' It is indeed a Hero's Journey, one in which you will remember your light.


You will learn to make peace with your past, and embrace the miracle of letting go: Let go and find flow. You will learn about the Natural Law of non-resistance. You will learn how openness, honesty, and vulnerability are the only way to be. You will learn that your only true enemy is your ego, and how discovering your Higher Power is the only way forward. You will learn the power of connection.


The human condition right now involves being mentally ill in order to cope with our Dystopian, drama-fuelled chaotic illusory world. This needn't be so...


You will meet true spiritual Masters and philosophers along the way, including Jesus, William Shakespeare, Albert Einstein, Carl Jung, and Friedrich Nietzsche.


You will experience a rebirth, a Renaissance of your mind, and witness your own resurrection. You will see how you are mighty and are risen. You will find inner peace. You will experience compassion, joy, and unconditional love. Your perception will shift from fear to love. You will learn to live in a place of presence.


You will learn how to experience and let go of your emotions, and learn to let go of negative beliefs and negative thinking. You will discover wisdom and Truth that you simply can't get from books alone.


You will learn how to leave the judgement of others behind and how to leap over the pitfalls that they try to set for you. You will learn how to let go of your need for external validation. You will learn to unleash the power of your shadow. You will comprehend spirituality and how it is the true source of your Real Personal Power and limitless possibility for your life. You will learn how to deal with any adversity. You will harness the power of prayer, meditation, and mindfulness.


This is a process of reintegrating your psyche, becoming authentic, and bringing your unconscious to the light. You will learn why taking off your mask is crucial to your survival. You will learn about the meaning of your life and your true purpose. You will discover a program for living. You will find your two power sources and learn to connect with your creativity. You will find spiritual bliss and Enlightenment.


You will learn to be gentle and kind with your Self, and that periods of cocooning may be necessary. You will learn to love and forgive your Self.



If you are ready, you will need a guide; an Enlightened Witness, in order to avoid the pitfalls and to cut years off your learning curve. I will champion your possibility and give you hope. All is well. Are you ready to claim miracles?



I see you, I hear you, I see the divine in you.


Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you: Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you.


Namaste.


Sending you love, light, and blessings brothers.


Olly



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Hello,

I am delighted and enchanted to meet you. I coach men with 'Deep Coaching', 'Supercoaching', and Transformative Life Coaching (TLC). Thank you for reading this far. I very much look forward to connecting with the highest version of you, to seeing your highest possibility, and to our conversations. Please do contact me via my email for a free connection call and a free experience of coaching on Zoom or in person. 


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I have a Bachelor's degree in Natural Sciences from Trinity College, Cambridge; a Master's Degree in Philosophy from Trinity College, Cambridge; a PhD Doctorate in Scientific Research from University College London (UCL); a Medical Degree (MD/MBBS) from The Royal Free Hospital School of Medicine, London and have been a doctor and reconstructive trauma and cancer surgeon in London for 20 years. I have a number of other higher qualifications in science and surgery. I have published over 50 peer reviewed PubMed cited scientific journal articles, have been an associate editor and frequent scientific faculty member, and am the author of several scientific books. I have been awarded my Diploma in Transformative Life Coaching in London, which has International Coaching Federation (ICF) Accreditation, as well as the UK Association for Coaching (AC), and the European Mentoring and Coaching Council (EMCC). I have been on my own transformative journey full time for over five years and I am ready to be your guide to you finding out who you really are and how the world works.




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