What Superpowers Can One Person Offer Another? They Must be Ignited in You Through the Flame of Another. Once We Have Them Inside Us We May Then Offer Them Forward and to Ourselves by BEing Them. This is How You Will Meet the Highest Version of You on Your Path. This is What You Were Looking For. Let Me Introduce You to YOU: In fact, let me Introduce You to the 3U's...
This article is the third part of my 'Trilogy of Serving You' for men seeking awakening to your True Personal Power. These are the Superpowers that one must acquire from another person before they may become part of us, so that we can then offer them to ourselves and to others in all aspects of our lives. They are the torches that will light your flame. From that moment on your whole life will change. The 3U's are:
Ultimate Compassion
Unconditional Love
Unlimited Wisdom and Truth
In 'Serving YOU: Part I: How May I Serve You?' I explained who you are (who I serve), how I may serve you, what the coaching experience looks like, and why I am the coach to serve you.
In 'Serving YOU: Part II: What is True Service?' I explained how I will bring true service to coaching you.
In this article, 'Serving 'YOU: Part III: The Superpowers That Will Serve You' we will dive into the 3U's and find the real you. This is all you need to find joy, love, peace, serenity and True Personal Power. It involves awakening the highest version of you. It involves letting go of what was holding you back. However, we need another to ignite them in us. This is how I may serve you. Let's dive in...
What Are The 3U's? They are your 3 Superpowers
Ultimate Compassion
In my article on compassion I explain that compassion is how we lift others up. One has to have compassion inside of us before we can do that. The only way to get it inside of us is to experience receiving it from another person. We don't experience it as others don't have it, as they are too preoccupied with their own perceived suffering: We all this way until we wake up. The ego is who we think we are and the soul is who we really are. I don't mean religion, I mean real power. Compassion is how we show up for ourselves and others. This involves seeing others without any judgement. Who are we to judge one another?
At the beginning, compassion is like a seed; in the middle, it is like water; at the end, it is like a ripened fruit. Full Enlightenment is the result of Ultimate Compassion: When we see another human being as the highest version of them: When we see them as their soul. When we hold that gaze, they begin to see it in themselves: They then manifest their highest possibility. I will hear, see and value you as your highest Self, without judgement, until you become it.
Unconditional Love
I my article on unconditional love I explain that it is the most powerful force in the Universe. Love is pure light energy and I have so much energy to give. Love is the bridge between you and everything. Love is infinite. Unconditional love is when we only care for the happiness of another and we don't expect anything in return: We accept them as they are. It's true service. When we feel unconditional love we don't need anything else: When we don't feel unconditional love nothing else is enough. If you identify with your soul, then you see other people as souls, and souls love one another. It's easy as a soul to love everybody.
You cannot feel unconditional love until someone loves you unconditionally. This is why those who didn't experience unconditional love as children (the vast majority of us) struggle to love themselves and resort to 'imitation love' in the form of societal accolades and doomed interpersonal relationships in every area of your life, driven by fear. We feel betrayed. We can't trust anyone. We feel disconnected, and we are: But it needn't be this way. Every human thought, feeling, decision, choice, action and consequence is either based on love or fear. Love will find a way through paths where wolves fear to prey. Once you experience unconditional love, you can then give it to your Self and to others. He who loves, flies, runs, and rejoices: He is free and nothing holds him back. Self-love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.
You will recover your integrity and authenticity. That is a very powerful and healing way to live. Love is the daily choice of living from your highest Self. I will serve you, without expectation.
Unlimited Wisdom and Truth
In my article on wisdom and Truth I explain how to access these. Wisdom is the intuition that your soul receives when you undertake the transformative Journey, remember who you truly are, and are fully present, including using tools such as meditation. Wisdom is the key that gives you instant access to Universal consciousness.
Truth is a feeling that can't be expressed in words: It's unknowable. Truth can only be described and approximated through metaphor. But two awakened souls can feel the Truth. The only way to understand Truth is to experience it. This only happens in conversation between one Enlightened soul and another.
Serving You
As Khalil Gibran wrote "The teacher who is indeed wise does not bid you to enter the house of his wisdom but rather leads you to the threshold of your mind." It's your choice whether you go in: Take the journey from the mind to the heart, the seat of the soul. The soul knows.
There is such power in connection: It is like a pipeline of pure energy that enters in the middle of your chest. At the beginning you will draw from my reservoir. I will pour liquid energy and compassion into you.
Any left over harshness, hate, fear, anger, self-pity, unworthiness, failure, resentment and conflict from the illusion of living in fear as the ego (the terrified 7-year old you who has been unconsciously running your life until now) will be dislodged. The energy will release these internal blockages and limiting beliefs. Let them go. We will transmute the emotions that you have been feeling into your Superpowers of compassion, light, wisdom and Truth: Your Superpowers. You are an instrument for the transmission of these energies. In the space of serenity inside you we will go deeper and find the highest version of you.
This is how we will find your purpose. You will learn from and release all pain and alchemise it into peace and Real Personal Power. Be gentle with your self. You just need to remember who you truly are. You are eager to give up your suffering: It’s your choice. It’s just your fear telling you that it’s not. Fear is a liar. Only you can set your Self free. Choose heaven not hell. You are strong enough. You have the courage that you need.
To take this Journey you will need a guide who has walked your path: I have walked your path, I know it very well. I am massively committed to the journey of awakening YOU. You will see. I would be honoured to serve you. We will see the highest version of you, you will become him, and you will become limitless in all areas of your life, free your Self from pain, and find peace and joy...
Sending you love, light, and blessings.
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I have a Bachelor's degree in Natural Sciences from Trinity College, Cambridge; a Master's Degree in Philosophy from Trinity College, Cambridge; a PhD Doctorate in Scientific Research from University College London (UCL); a Medical Degree (MD/MBBS) from The Royal Free Hospital School of Medicine, London and have been a doctor and reconstructive trauma and cancer surgeon in London for 20 years. I have published over 50 peer reviewed scientific journal articles, have been an associate editor and frequent scientific faculty member, and am the author of several scientific books. I have been awarded my Diploma in Transformative Life Coaching in London, which has International Coaching Federation (ICF) Accreditation, as well as the UK Association for Coaching (AC), and the European Mentoring and Coaching Council (EMCC). I have been on my own transformative journey full time for four years and I am ready to be your guide to you finding out who you really are and how the world works.