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You Are The Problem: And That's Good News

Updated: Jan 28

If you don’t realise that you are the problem, then there is no solution.


Read that again...


If you don’t realise that you are the problem, then there is no solution.


The Dalai Lama said "If there is a solution to a problem, there is no need to worry. And if there is no solution, there is no need to worry."The serenity prayer in the 12 steps is:


"God (or whatever Higher Power you like), grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,

And the wisdom to know the difference."


The key to joy, unconditional love, peace, and abundance is to realise that you are the problem in your life. And that's ok. Everyone is. That's the human condition until we make the subconscious conscious. Until we wake up. It means that there is a solution. If you think that other people, places, events, and things are the problem, then you don't have a solution as you can only ever actually work on your Self and how you perceive the world. You are on a spiritual journey, whether you know it or not. The spiritual journey is for everyone and enlarging your spiritual life is the answer to all your problems. The key is to want it, not just to need it. Are you ready for miracles? Are you ready for your bud to open? It's time to invoke your 'God-Mode'. Now you rise...


The Dalai Lama said "If there is a solution to a problem, there is no need to worry. And if there is no solution, there is no need to worry."


I had a conversation with someone recently during a coaching session and he replied "It was a pleasure to speak with you. There's certain conversations I leave feeling uplifted, and this was that kind. After our conversation I left feeling recharged, hopeful, and more connected to the divine in a spiritual sense than I have in a long time." That warmed my soul.


If you don’t have an Enlightened Witness, guide, coach, or a sponsor it is most likely, I am sorry to say, that your life is being run by an idiot. Your best thinking got you here.


We can't blame our parents for our dysfunctional childhood. If your parents had known better they would have done better. And so can you...


Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you: Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you.


George Bernard Shaw wrote that “Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” Are you ready to change your mind?


Namaste.


Sending you love, light, and blessings brothers.


Olly



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