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How to Save Any Relationship

Updated: Jan 28

What is the secret to a joyful, loving, lasting marriage? Or for any relationship for that matter. Why is it a mystery? With divorce rates over 50 percent, and most of those who remain married cohabiting only, we don’t seem to know how to BE for relationships to work. The problem is that we don't know who we truly are, we don’t love unconditionally, we don’t know how to communicate with each other, we aren’t happy to be open and vulnerable with courage, we seek grievances instead of miracles, we look for conflict instead of peace, we project our own issues onto others, and we seek drama instead of being present in the now. This is how we are conditioned to live. This is why our relationships fail. We fail to know how life truly works...


How to save any relationship


So how do we sort all that lot out? What is the secret? Click on the links for my expanded articles all about these subjects...


To find out who you truly are, you need to take a journey inwards. This is the domain of the spiritual path and of Deep Coaching or Transformative Life Coaching. For this you will need a guide; an Enlightened Witness.


Loving unconditionally means wanting the other person to feel joy and to accept everything about them.



We aren’t happy to be open and vulnerable with courage

Vulnerability is essential to deep human connection. Let your inner child express themselves, with the courage of your Higher Power.


Grievances come from fear and hate. Miracles come from a shift in perception from fear to love.


We look for conflict instead of peace

Don't be addicted to conflict, get excited about peace.


We project our own issues onto others


We seek drama instead of being present in the now

Don't seek drama, escape it through being present.


Don't forget that you already have a banquet of love available all around you. There is no need to look for crumbs on the floor. Your relationship survives when you realise that you are not alone.


Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you: Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you.


George Bernard Shaw wrote that “Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” Are you ready to change your mind?


Namaste.


Sending you love, light, and blessings brothers.


Olly



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