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What is Love?

Updated: Jan 28

I now know what real love is. To really love someone is to want them to be full of joy and to accept them exactly as they are: It is unconditional.


What is love?


Real love is the same as compassion - it’s to see the highest version of someone - to see their soul, without wanting to change a thing about them.


When you have real love you don’t need anything else: When you don’t have real love, nothing else is enough.


Imitation love are the crumbs that you scratch around for on the floor, when you have a banquet of real love all around you.


I never had real love as a child and that is emotional abuse. Our parents love us, but they don't love us enough to allow us to be who we are.


Not being loved is one of our deepest fears.


A miracle is a change in perception from fear to love.


The answer is always love, no matter what the question.



The word 'evolve' contains the word love, and that is not surprising as it is through love that we grow.


Love has nothing to do with anything that is going on in your head. You can never think your way into love. You can only feel love, not think it.


Love is your essence; your energy.


Love is the ultimate healing power.


Speak in such a way that others love to listen to you: Listen in such a way that others love to speak to you.


George Bernard Shaw wrote that “Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” Are you ready to change your mind?


Namaste.


Sending you love, light, and blessings brothers.


Olly



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