Have you ever felt totally lost, which has been described as 'not being able to see the wood for the trees'? There can be times when you are so caught up in the unimportant details of life that you are not able to pay attention to, or even see, the more important elements.
Who do you want to be?
When you're caught up in selfish pursuits, you might easily lose sight of what really matters. When you're caught up in what you have and don't have in comparison to others, you're failing to see that these external validation fixations are unimportant, insatiable, and lead to misery. When you're caught up in petty squabbles, conflict, or long-standing grudges, it's possible to forget what originally caused the issue. These are all irrelevant. Let them go.
Realising when being caught up in unimportant situations is seeing the woods - the bigger picture. Realising that what you have is not who you are and that who you are is all that really matters, can be a revelation, a wonderful experience, is equivalent to your self-worth, and can set you on a path to finding joy, peace, and serenity.
Instead of sleepwalking through life, doing what others do and trying to be who others (your family and society) believe you to be or want you to be; choose to awaken to being who you want to be, doing what you want, and finding what truly matters to you. You really don't need to please others - it's your life. You only get one.
Open your heart as well as your eyes to see what really matters. Seeing the Truth and realising its beauty and simplicity is spiritual bliss. It is the light of BEing. When you realise that your life is your own it is so liberating.
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